In this paper, we characterize symmetric Sobolev bilinear forms defined on P x P, where P is the space of polynomials. More specifically we show that symmetric Sobolev bilinear forms, like symmetric matrices, can be re-written with a diagonal representation. As an application, we introduce the notion of a ghost matrix, extending some classic work of T.J. Stieltjes. (C) 2009 Elsevier Inc. All rights reserved.